> Okay so i need help...?

Okay so i need help...?

Posted at: 2014-07-17 
Sooo i am 15 in high school and i have been wearing the normal lightly padded bikini's for awhile but i want to buy a push up bikini but ik my mom wont approve... All myfriends have one and i will even pay for it... I will only wear it at my house not like in public... I dont know how to buy one without her saying no or even knowing i bought one... Any help?Sooo i am 15 in high school and i have been wearing the normal lightly padded bikini's for awhile but i want to buy a push up bikini but ik my mom wont approve... All myfriends have one and i will even pay for it... I will only wear it at my house not like in public... I dont know how to buy one without her saying no or even knowing i bought one... Any help?

Be honest and upfront. Going behind her back would make her wonder if she hid this what else is she hiding. The point your making here is you are getting older and want her to see you as a young adult not a kid. But going behind her back would make her distrustful and wouldn't help you. Sit her down and talk to her. Explain your feelings but also tell her you understand her concerns. Then ask if there was a way yall could comprimise. Ask her if the both of you could settle on some guidelines. Also let her know that you would promise to only wear it at home. Explain that you would never wear it at a friends or out in public. That will suprise her and she would see that your handling the situation in a responsible manner and that your being mature. that's the best way deary.