> My family dispute - Please help!!?

My family dispute - Please help!!?

Posted at: 2014-09-26 
My best advice is for you to stay out of it and let your parents solve it, it is their issue, not yours. Your parents and the other adults are not likely to listen much to anything you say, anyway.

Please help me, I'm irritated because of my uncle!!

I have a uncle, & my family don't like him (I don't like him either).

I'm 14 years old & for many years my uncle had an office in the basement of my home. He always respected us, & sometimes when my mom was busy, he used to pick me from my school. He is a businessman, & sometimes he used to keep his money at our home to give to his clients when he was going out of town - He was very good.

After his marriage, he turned into a monster!!

He has been married for 7 years, & now he never listens to my family.

For the past few months, he has been drinking (Although he never drank before & after his marriage) & he never respects us. Few days ago, he beat my grandmother & she was admitted in the hospital. He always listens to his wife & children, but he never listens to my family.

My father gifted me a phone on my birthday & he & his wife blackmail me. They say that you have never bought anything on your own & you always borrow money from the mother (My grandmother).

We are very irritated because of his actions. He lives on the second floor in the house where my grandma & my other uncle live & he askes my grandma to leave her house & go away from their. He also says that mother should give me rent because she stays in his house.

He has become very greedy. He always looks for money.

Now my parents & grandma & other uncles have decided that my grandma will move to the old house (where they lived previously).

Please give me advice & suggestions so that this dispute can end.

I know it is a very ridiculous thing that I'm asking for your help. I'm not happy because this is a personal issue & I want this dispute to end. He fights over very small issues, but thanks for your help :-)

Thanks for reading this ☺