Would these heels be appropriate for a 14 year old to wear for special occasions? The shoes have a 4 inch heel.

Kitten heels or flats would be much more appropriate - and safer - for a 14 year old.

I would say if you're less than 5"5' then 3 inches and down is appropriate, if your above then the height is whatever you feel comfortable in, but if you do not have a lot of expirence wearing 3+ inch high heels, then I do not think it would be the best idea.

no