The first one link which you posted may look more better then the below one. Considering your home for more look gorgeous you'll have to choose sectional sofa for it too.

if that is what you like

I don't know much about design. I'm in the market for 2 bedside lamps. I found two lampshades that sort of match the pattern in our comforter and I think would look nice. See links. Is this the way to go or can it get too "matchy matchy"? Would this look good or am I better off getting a solid color lamp shade? Thanks!

http://www.croscill.com/product/bedding-collections/474781-3680/galleria-chocolate-bedding-collection.html

http://www.lampsplus.com/products/leiden-taupe-bell-shade-10x14x11-spider__w9495.html#